Thailand is an exotic vacation location that has a particular appeal to the gay population. Thailand lacks many of prejudices found still even in our modern Western world. The people of Thailand are wonderfully friendly and accepting, which makes gay vacations a great choice. The Thai people view sexuality as a natural facet of everyday life.

Thai people are accepting of gay culture, largely due to the religion/philosophy that they practice, Buddhism, in which sexuality is considered a natural and enjoyable part of life. It is important to note that public displays of affection are considered inappropriate, and there are various other customs that should be kept in mind while visiting. For instance, the royal family and religion are revered and it is important to show respect and wear modest clothing when visiting palaces and temples and be careful photographing Buddha statues, as this is sometimes frowned upon. Other gestures such as touching another person’s head or pointing at things with one’s feet are unacceptable.

Top visitor destinations for gay tours in Thailand include Bangkok, Phuket, and Chiangmai. Bangkok is the capital of Thailand and a mix of modern and tradition. In the city, there are world class accommodations, fine food, and unparalleled nightlife. Silom is 1 of 3 gay neighborhoods, where visitors will find gay-friendly clubs, massage parlors, go-go bars, cabaret clubs, and saunas. Three major tourist destinations, Bangkok, Pattaya, and Phuket, hold annual gay pride events. If nightlife isn’t for you, Bangkok also houses historic temples and palaces immersed in tradition.

There are plenty of nightclubs in Bangkok to satisfy even the most metro of the homosexual travelers. Particular delights are the go-go boy bars that keep the music going into the early hours of the morning. It is happening in Bangkok and a great gay trips destination.

Chiangmai is the second largest city in Thailand, has a rich history, and contains more than 300 temples. The Buddhist monastery of Doi Suthep can be found looking down on the city, reached by a long mountain road. Outside of Chiangmai, there are numerous gardens (there are over 1000 varieties of orchids here), waterfalls, and hidden caves. Like Bangkok, Chiangmai has a thriving gay population, and nightlife is diverse, with go-go bars, clubs, and cabaret.

There is more to Thailand than Bangkok. You will not have experienced the full breadth and depth of the country if you do not venture out of the epicenter that is Bangkok. Step into the country to visit traditional temples, meet endearing natives, and experience the gorgeous natural landscape that is Thailand. Make certain to visit the ancient capital city, Ayuttaya. It is known as the Bridge over the River Kwai, and is a must see destination for visitors. Take self organized or structured gay tours to the northern mountains, or pack your swimsuit and visit the exotic beaches of Thailand. Who knows, you may never want to leave. One thing you should always pack on gay tours in Thailand is an open mind. You have to come into this eastern country willing to experience life to its fullest and try new things. Do not be put off by squat toilets or smelly fruit. In fact, one of the best fruits in the world is the durian, which may put you off at first by its unique odor. If you let that stop you, you would truly be missing out on a culinary delight. When in Thailand you should eat local cuisine and shop for exotic local clothing, and participate in local entertainment experiences. You only live once, and truly living in Thailand is an easy thing to do. Pack your bags now.

Essay about Thailand penned by Howie Holben. Spirit Journeys provides gay spiritual singles a way to meet at gay yoga retreats.